Wednesday, 25 December 2019

Friday we arrived at Trivandrum around 5.20am, feeling dirty and tired.


The groom and his brother collected us from the station and got us to the Mascot hotel. This was a place of amazing luxury compared to the train, though being in India bits still didn’t work or were loose. I ended up with broken glass in the shower then the glass soap dish fell from it’s (loose, swivelling) holder.

Everything seems busier, noisier, faster moving in this city. The language – Malayalam – is also apparently the most difficult in all of India, and the script is in a very even looped style, different from the typical Hindi script.

We had a shower and did our teeth, then a bit of a nap, breakfast with Carol and her family, then another nap before deciding to go explore.

The sun outside was fiercely hot and the air really muggy. Trying to follow our location and plan a direction using google maps was partially successful, although some streets that appeared on the map were actually impassable because they went through restricted areas or private property. Sweating freely, we eventually arrived at the cathedral of St Joseph, where there was a service going on. The singing was unusual and delicate, the church nearly full, and people had their hands in the air in worship. We did one circuit around the outside of the building (nothing of interest really, other than to note everyone removed their shoes before entering) and then made our way back.

Lunch was a snack thanks to the ‘welcome’ pack provided by the grooms family to thank us for coming, then we napped, swam in the pool, met our friends (flown in later from Goa) and swam some more. Dinner in the hotel was good, but spicy-hot!

It felt a little like a wasted day, but the train journey and lack of sleep had been draining, and we were glad to rest up.

Thursday dawned fine and bright.


Chris woke me to ask what the plan was and when we were going to get up, which wasn’t completely ideal since I was sleeping well for a change. However it was really a good thing since we had to pack before leaving on a train journey to Kerala, and didn’t want to be late for departure from Carol’s house.

Pack, breakfast, checkout. Easy.

Mostly.

The residence only took cash payments.

So I had a ride on a moped to the nearest ATM. Which refused to allow me to draw 12,000 rupees (about £130). With both debit and credit cards.

Remembering my earlier experience with not being about to draw much money in the airport, I tried entering a lesser amount, and all was well. Multiple lower value draws seemed OK, but not single high-value transactions. Guess it takes a bit longer to drain the bank account.

So we met up with her family, climbed into the bus and drove to Madgaon Junction station for the train.

Views from the window made more sense than on our first trip from the airport, and what had felt like chaos now had a logic and pattern to it. The first time we were in India (2011) the culture shock was quite strong, and possibly because of that experience, it dissipated more quickly this time.

As an aside, we’re honoured to be guests on this trip, but want to make as little fuss as possible, so will be trying to generally keep a low profile. Our host has enough on his plate already.

For such a relatively simple concept, stations everywhere are different. Numbers and length of platforms, means of getting between them, fenced/non-fenced, shops and facilities etc. It makes life more interesting to see the different kinds of kiosks etc that are available, but I’m still surprised at the variety. This one was like a longer, warmer version of Bharatpur junction outside Delhi, which was the last Indian station we waited on. It was quite modern in a traditional station way with lots of places to buy food, escalators to get passengers up in order to cross tracks etc. I took a few pictures, but we aren’t on holiday, and it seemed inappropriate behaviour as part of such a group to walk about snapping everywhere.

And so we had our mildly chaotic train entry, starting in the wrong carriage & being questioned by ticket collectors (at this point we were on our own) and not having a clue what seat numbers or even which carriage we should be in. It was a sleeper train, with sleeping compartments for 4 people and no privacy curtains between. There were also compartments off the corridor on the other side, one up  one down. The young couple sat opposite, when we finally got to our seats, were pleasant, and had some English, which was helpful.

Seats. Beds. The sleeper compartment is made ‘as is’ with fixed bunks just about high enough above the lower seat for a European not to bash their head, and no padding for a seatback to rest against. Food was “veg/non-veg” (we picked veg as the safe option) which turned out to be rice, dahl, paneer curry and a pot of natural (cheesy) yoghurt. Later someone came past with pots of icecream (nice, like old-fashioned vanilla tubs) and others to collect rubbish, sweep and sanitise the floor etc. At least there’s aircon.

People continuously walk past the curtain to the compartment, brushing it open briefly, making me wonder if one will come in and ask questions about tickets or seats again.

Yup, it seems we've gone (luxuriously) native. ;-)

Pity the window is so dirty that seeing out is difficult.

And my bum aches after less than 2 hours. ;-)

Dinner came along in similar format to lunch.

Worth mentioning that as a 6 year old, my parents took the family back to Austria. That involved a 2 day train journey from Oostend to Vienna, and the train was considerably more comfortable, beds folding away to make conventional seating, sleeping compartments having closed doors and individual curtains around beds for privacy. And no mobile phones to beep, bleat, chime, jungle and receive telephone calls at 2am.

And so we had a free day....


Wednesday, I seemed to sleep a little better, but still awoke dopey and bumbly. The digestive system began to function gain this morning, which is probably more information that the reader requires, but never the less was significant since it brought comfort and some peace of mind eventually. 

So we went for a walk, discovering the main shopping street of Morjim and getting very hot in the process. 32 degrees and high humidity make a December-adapted European perspire hard. And because it was a free day, we went back to the beach for a swim and relaxation on sunbeds (in the shade). It also gave me time to catch up with this.

Photographically the place is potentially very good, however the heat and humidity plus not having transport (I find it hard to just grab a taxi) and a wife who would be bored on a photo-walk have worked to stop me going places that make good pictures.

Since we’ve just been disturbed by the crows/jackdaws I’ll mention wildlife. There are huge crowds of some kind of jackdaw-like corvids round here, and in the evening they are really noisy as they circle overhead. We’ve also seen kites and (possibly) sea eagles elsewhere on the coast. There were also clouds of dragonflies for the first couple of evenings, though I’ve not seen so many today. There are plainly biting insects about, as the occasional lump will testify, but it’s not been a big problem and we’re coping OK.

There’s a diverse range of 'local' people-groups about, and we’ve seen what look like family-distinct features on different sets of people. There are also those who clearly have a wealthy background, illustrated by their relative obesity and intentionally ‘nice’ clothes. Some of the guys have quoifed hair that stands up in a sort of quiff with beards stretched to be a little pointy, and that my be a ‘local speciality’. But it’s harder to identify ‘local’ and non-local people – our waiter last evening was Nepalese and I’ve definitely seen Punjabi and Simla facial features. 

In terms of non-local people, we've been greeted "dobrey den" a few times, which makes the assumption we're Russian - the most common non-India race in those parts.

I did manage a walk along the beach this afternoon, while Chris had a massage. Saw guys using seine nets, walking in pairs into the sea with the net piled over a pair of poles held between them, then one walking off into the ocean in a big loop while trailing the net behind him. They caught a few fish and some plastic waste. Also managed to talk to the owner of a fishing boat (he approached me with the classic conversation opened “how are you”) who was pleased to show me the kingfish his workers had caught.

Wednesday night we found a quieter restaurant to eat in, having some modernised Indian food (chicken malai tikka) made with cream of cashews and presented as fine dining. It was nice, but unconventional. There was also a pitcher of Bira beer that was fairly un-beer like, definitely low alcohol.